How to Stop the Self-Sabotage Cycle: It’s Pushing Your Soulmate Away

DR. LARA FERNANDEZ

In the wild ride of love and heartbreak, sometimes it feels like we’re stuck in a loop, constantly searching for a way out but ending up in the same place. Desperation creeps in, and we start to feel like we’re running in circles, getting nowhere. If you’ve tried quick fixes and found no relief, you’re not the only one feeling this way. Because you’re still stuck with the burning question: How can you stop the cycle of self-sabotage and open our hearts to lasting love?

Stop the Self-Sabotage Cycle

Einstein once said that insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results. Nowhere does this apply more poignantly and create more heartache for us than in our quest for love. 

It’s easy to fall into the trap of repeating the same dating patterns, hoping that perhaps this time, fate will smile upon us. But the truth is, true love exists outside of our comfort zones.

You can’t heal all your relationship pain and heartbreak in one sitting, with the right Instagram reel or tip & trick-filled blog post. You probably know that already though, if you’ve tried those one-and-done “solutions”. 

But taking the first step on a proven path CAN help you start to feel hopeful again, remind yourself of who you are, and start to build some momentum towards healing.

Investing in Your Future Love Life

You may feel exhausted right now because all the decisions and responsibilities of life are all on YOUR shoulders. But with the RIGHT man (not just any random guy, and not like the men you’ve dated), your quality of life goes way, way UP.

It’s not about you being unable to handle things yourself. 

Of course, you can! But you’ve already been proving that for years. You don’t need a man, of course… but you’re here because you WANT an amazing man, right?

And the right man for you wants to make you happy. He’ll do everything he can to just see you smile. The right man for you will be the father or bonus dad to your child or future child(ren). 

So it’s time to learn how to choose wisely. Learn how to be the queen in your life, so that you’ll naturally be a magnet for your KING. Learn how high-quality, marriage-minded men think and how they show up in the world, so that you’re not missing them or pushing them away.

Your Path to Soulmate Success

If you want to stop the cycle of self-sabotage once and for all, you MUST be a woman who is serious about a few things:

    • Getting CLEAR on what’s been stopping YOU from making your dreams of true love, marriage, and family happen.

    • Getting CLEAR on what exactly YOUR Secret Dream is and why it’s SO important to you.

    • Getting CLEAR on what exactly YOU need to do right now to bring your Secret Dream to life and live that life you’ve been wanting, wishing, and praying about for many years.

A Call to Transformation

If you’re a woman ready for change, if you’re willing to challenge the self-sabotage cycle and embrace the unknown, we invite you to join our Love Breakthrough Bootcamp. This immersive experience is exclusively designed for women like you—smart, successful, kind-hearted, and deeply desiring of true love.

Our bootcamp isn’t about quick fixes or fleeting moments of hope. It’s about starting a transformative journey, one that leads to a deep, lasting connection.

Don’t let the self-sabotage cycle keep your soulmate at bay. Take the first step toward your soulmate success. Register for the Love Breakthrough Bootcamp now and let’s embark on this transformative journey together.

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